Not Tonight Sweetheart

While marriage is a one flesh relationship, sex is neither stranger nor peripheral to marriage; it is delicately woven into its very fabric. To keep a healthy marriage, you must take sex seriously as one of many vital ingredients. Unauthorized sex does not create marriage, but denial of sex in legitimate homes has enhanced masturbation, extra affair, separation, divorce or murder. Be wise; sex cannot be divorced from marriage. When judiciously employed, it offers couples opportunities to give and receive physical pleasure. It does not only connect emotionally and spiritually; it also builds closeness, intimacy and a sense of partnership.

One out of every three couples struggle with problem associated with low sexual desire. While low sexual desire is not only peculiar to women, many sex experts believe that low sexual desire in men all over the world is best-kept secret.
Reasons this book gives are: fear of intimacy, childhood sexual abuse, molestation, rape, guilt from sexual sin, busyness, stress, anxiety, depression, non-forgiveness, deep grief, bitterness, fear, anger, sexual technique, betrayal, adultery, abuse, manipulation, selfishness, boredom, medical conditions, hormones, painful sex, lack of knowledge about sexuality, lack of trust, lack of respect, lack of sexual intimacy, lack of privacy and a host of others.

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Cease the moment, don’t let it pass you by

Because if it does, it might never come your way again

When a man needs your help do not hesitate,

If you do, another will help him.

And you will lose out of the opportunity to sow a seed

Which in the future will bear you great fruits

Even your generations to come will reap the harvest

Those little things you do to help others

Those soothing words of advice

The shoulder you lend to another to cry upon

The time you invest into the lives of others

That little sum of money you give

Though so insignificant it might seem to others

But it cost you a lot and it came from the bottom of your heart

They are all forming a big cloud of rain above you

A time will come, who knows when

Maybe in time of great drought and famine

That the cloud will bust and it shall rain upon you

Great blessing that you cannot imagine

So cease the moment, don’t let it pass you by

Every opportunity you have to help others

Do it with the whole of your heart

So that when the time comes you will reap a great harvest

Such that your children will benefit from and their children too.

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SUNSET

When the sun sets people return to their places of abode weary and tired, hungry and thirsty after toiling all day long.When the sun sets the birds stop singing the toads start  croaking the butterflies cease flying, it’s time for the moth to fly. 

 

The hot tiring wind is replaced with the cool refreshing breeze of the night. Then its time to reflect on the days success and failures before finally laying the head to rest.

 

At sunset little children are excited it’s time to listen to new tales, it’s time to play under the moonlight and catch the little moth that flies round the fire.

 

The African woman, the pride of the African home, she sits by the fire with her children round her gently she tells them tales which she was told at childhood

 

Gently she teaches her children to be wise always to be good because good always overcome evil

Sunrise, sunset who knows what the next sunrise will bring, maybe I’ll never see the next sunrise.

 

As the sun rises and sets, Father! Let my heart always be prepared so that when the sun finally sets on me, I will come home to take my rest in Your right arm where there will neither be sunrise nor sunset.